I am here again. Hoping this blog will be a help to someone out there. I wanted to talk about forgiveness today. I am a radiation oncologist who treats cancer patients. I notice that in my patients the ones who do better are the ones who have made peace , the ones who aren't holding grudges, the ones who have forgiven. I had a patient who had a brain tumor. I will never forget her , she was only 37 and she had a 10 year old son. The tumor went away with treatment but recurred. She went to hospice. I went to visit her in Hospice and we prayed and she received a miraculous healing and actually went home.
But when I would see her in follow up visits in my office, she always talked about her son's father and how angry she was with him and how she couldn't forgive him. She was well , but bitter and angry despite her miraculous healing. I begged her as her doctor to forgive, but she refused.
They called me to the emergency room one day about a year later, and she was there with the brain tumor back. I asked her to forgive and let the root of bitterness go, and even in the ER on the stretcher , she refused.
I really think forgiving and letting go of bitterness will free you and allow you to heal and recover from many diseases. Sad to say, she didn't make it. You may think this is coincidence, but I believe it plays a part. Forgiveness.... it's for you more than for the other person. They are out somewhere laughing and having a good time, while you are sitting around with high blood pressure and stomach ulcers. Forgive... for your own sake.
Peace to you,
Dr. Webb